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2 min readSep 14, 2025

It is a casual Sunday morning. The day started off like any other day. The morning saging of the house and then giving my wife a big kiss and hug. It is that simple. It is the best part of my day. As I was cleaning the bathroom, I started thinking about how many times we kiss a day. The short answer, a lot. But truth be told, we kiss all the time. And as I was cleaning, I thought how many kisses have we shared over the course of our marriage. I thought I would low ball it and say 10 times a day. Extrapolate that out to over 20 plus years of marriage and a year of dating, that would be somewhere in the neighborhood 80300 kisses.

We are a physical couple. Holding hands, kissing, dancing in the kitchen, my hand on her ass…we are connected like that. Even after all these years. The benefit to that is verbal communication. Because we are so connected, talking comes easy and effortlessly. Some don’t believe that we have never had an argument or fight. I attribute that to the kiss. And the kiss leads to the connection. And the connection leads to the highest form of intimacy.

I have no idea how many times we have kissed. But I am guessing that it is more than 80300. Whatever the number is, all she needs to know is it’s not enough.

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Vance Larson
Vance Larson

Written by Vance Larson

I am a retired crisis counselor of 40 years. I share my experiences {both personal and professional} about thought provoking subjects. Follow me.

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