Rituals Of Connectedness

Sky above, earth below and fire within. You don’t need to be a witch to have rituals of connectedness. And baby, it’s all about being connected.

I was talking to a client of mine earlier, and they mentioned that he and his partner had different love languages. While love languages are important, they are useless, if you don’t feel connected. The key is to find or create a ritual that works for the both of you. Something that affirms, “ We are bound together.” And very little on this earth, or the life thereafter, can separate us. That is the power of connectedness.

For the past 20 years, both my wife and I have spoken to each other as if we would outlast time and space. For we know that this dance has happened for many lifetimes, and will continue to do so. It’s not that we’re supernatural. But in the end, that’s where love begins. And our dance is infinite. And yours can be too.

Rituals of connectedness take work. But once you have mastered them, spoken word, physical touch and transference of energy flow, like water down a mountain. And when an obstacle appears, the water simply flows around it, or it wears it down over time. There must be intent in your rituals. And all that superficial top layer shit, ain’t going to cut it. You have to go deep, to get deep. Otherwise, you will never know what true intimacy is.

Rituals of connectedness. Because you’re tired of ordinary. And you know that you deserve a love, that can not be put into words.



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Vance Larson

Vance Larson

I am a retired crisis counselor of 20 years, and have spent the last decade working as both a Life Coach and Hypnotherapist.