Sucked

Sucked. Yeah it feels good, but then you’re fucked. Let’s jump into it…

Have you ever been hanging with someone {or a group} and everyone is joking around? Laughing and having a good time. But somewhere along the line, you feel a shift in the energy. Like this has gone too far. You my friend, just got sucked into a bullshit situation. You went from sucked, to fucked in a matter of minutes. Fucked how? Someone’s feelings got hurt, or perhaps someone snapped an inappropriate photo. Whatever the case may be, there will be repercussions from it.

You’ve got to be careful. Not everyone you call friend, is a friend. They may not even have meant to fuck you. But here you are…fucked without the fun. Does this sound familiar? If so, it is time to get yourself a new circle. We all say some dumb shit from time to time. And it usually is when you’re having a day, or just trying to blow off some steam. But then some mother fucker takes it too far. They break the bond and the trust of the circle. You got sucked into it.

It happens to the best of us. But if it happens all too often, one or two things is happening. We’ve already talked about the possibility of a new circle. But what if you’re the problem? You just can’t help yourself. You take a good time and make it terrible. You sucked yourself. No matter what happened, it is damage control time. And the best defense to being sucked is honesty. Good people say and do bad things all the time. But again, if this is a pattern, please for the love of God look in the mirror. It just may be you.

Sucked. It’s not fun. Especially living in a cancel culture. All I am saying is choose your words and your circle wisely. Ask anyone who has been the victim of this situation. I promise you they will tell you it sucked.